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Dr. Art Parra's avatar

This was hard to read. The reaction from both your mother, blaming you for something you could not control, and your father responded with "how much it will cost," I could only assume cuts deep. This essay I believe is relevant for many people, the courage you have shown in sharing yours is inspiring. I appreciate your diligence in sharing what you have gone through. You without a doubt are resilient.

Sydney Turcotte's avatar

Thank you Dr. Art, I really appreciate that.

It’s strange how the weight of something really hits when a grounded and safe person hears it without minimizing or reframing it.

It changes how you see it. And the truth, settles.

Larry Bland's avatar

Sorry you had to live through all of that. You survived though. 👏 Yes, you are defintly resilient. Thanks so much for sharing.

Sydney Turcotte's avatar

Thanks so much for your support, as always Larry 🤗

Lilitu Rodac | Cult Survivor's avatar

Well-written 👏 "Maybe my ears should never have heard my childhood." Ugh, my heart!

Sydney Turcotte's avatar

Lili.. Thank you. I know why that resonated and so thankful we connected 💕💕

Diya Sijo's avatar

Such a beautiful piece.. Our childhood traumas can have an adverse effect on ourselves, glad to know your pushing through it and bringing this topic to light.. stay strong!!!

Just subbed, feel free to do the same!!

Sydney Turcotte's avatar

Yes Diya, grieving that loss is so key to breaking free. Thank you you so much for taking reading and Im subbing back to you as well 💕

Diya Sijo's avatar

Thankyouu!!